Divorce and mediation process is an important part when it comes to divorce or any other disagreement that cannot be resolved without expert help. It is a voluntary form of alternative dispute resolution, designed to help the different parties involved come to a mutually acceptable agreement about what should happen about the important aspects of a divorce or separation, including child residency arrangements, holiday childcare and ongoing access arrangements, as well as division of assets and future plans for, e.g. care for other family dependents or what needs to happen to larger assets from the partnership or marriage, such as property or business interests.
Typically, a mediation session is led by a trained third party who helps lead the negotiations and keeps things on track, aiming to disarm any sources of tension and to keep everyone’s emotions in check and minds on the task at hand. The mediator will not take sides and is present in the room to reduce conflict and avoid unnecessary delays in processing a divorce or legal separation. If you trust in their judgement and expertise, your mediator will be a huge help to you and your family to make sure you stay in control and are agreeable and confident about what is going to happen next.
It can also help you sort out multiple decisions in the immediate aftermath of a split, which keeps everyone calmer and more at ease with what can be significant changes ahead. In some cases, it can help children who are old enough to understand the implications to have a say in what happens to them, in terms of where they are going to live and with whom, where they will attend school and how much access they will have to their non-residential parent or other family members. After agreements have been reached, these can be drawn up into legally binding arrangements, or used as an informal basis for future discussions or arrangements, post-split.
Typically, a mediation session is led by a trained third party who helps lead the negotiations and keeps things on track, aiming to disarm any sources of tension and to keep everyone’s emotions in check and minds on the task at hand. The mediator will not take sides and is present in the room to reduce conflict and avoid unnecessary delays in processing a divorce or legal separation. If you trust in their judgement and expertise, your mediator will be a huge help to you and your family to make sure you stay in control and are agreeable and confident about what is going to happen next.
Why choose mediation?
Quite apart from the benefits of having a disinterested, non-biased mediator in the room with you to help move negotiations along and to reduce any tension involved, mediation can prove a highly cost-effective way to resolve a dispute, especially if you compare it to the far higher costs of a long and drawn-out hostile divorce. The law courts look more favourably on couples who have at least attempted mediation prior to moving to the divorce stage as it shows that you are both willing to discuss your situation in a mature, measured fashion and have a desire to keep control over your situation and its outcomes, rather than seeing things move into the hands of the court to decide.
It can also help you sort out multiple decisions in the immediate aftermath of a split, which keeps everyone calmer and more at ease with what can be significant changes ahead. In some cases, it can help children who are old enough to understand the implications to have a say in what happens to them, in terms of where they are going to live and with whom, where they will attend school and how much access they will have to their non-residential parent or other family members. After agreements have been reached, these can be drawn up into legally binding arrangements, or used as an informal basis for future discussions or arrangements, post-split.